Preparing For Divorce in New Jersey

If you are ready to get divorced, you should begin preparing for the weeks and months ahead now. Below, our experienced New Jersey family law attorneys have compiled a short list of tips regarding preparing for your divorce. Please continue reading to learn more. 

  • Do not let your emotions get in the way. Of course, divorce is an inherently emotional process, however, you must stay focused from start to finish. Now is not the time to dwell on the emotional side of divorce. Instead, remain calm, rational, and ready to go to work. If you do feel overwhelmed, realize that therapy is an option. Many people find it to be a tremendous help during the divorce process.
  • Get organized. One of the most important things you can do is ensure you stay organized. Gather all documentation you may need, including tax returns, credit card statements, pay stubs, and more. Our firm can help ensure you have all the necessary documentation to proceed. 
  • Have a clear understanding of your financial situation. Before going through the divorce process, write out a list of all your daily expenses, such as childcare, phone bills, electric bills, the cost of food for the week, etc. 
  • Read up on the divorce process and understand your options. In many cases, when spouses get divorced, they go through litigation, wherein a judge will decide the outcome of their divorce, including child custody terms, property distribution, and more. That being said, there are other routes you can take that will allow you to have more of a say in the outcome of your divorce, such as mediation or arbitration, which may prove to be better options. 
  • Be there for your children. Divorcing spouses can easily get caught up in their emotions, however, you should keep in mind that your children are experiencing the divorce just as much as you are, which is why you should keep their well-being at the forefront. This means communicating with them openly and honestly, and perhaps considering taking them to therapy if they need it. 
  • Hire a knowledgeable divorce attorney. Hiring an experienced divorce attorney goes a long way. The attorneys at Aronsohn, Weiner, Salerno & Kaufman have helped countless individuals through the divorce process for years, and they are here to do the same for you. 

Contact our experienced New Jersey firm

We understand how confusing certain legal issues can be, which is why we are dedicated to providing individuals with the compassionate, knowledgeable legal representation they deserve. Aronsohn, Weiner, Salerno & Kaufman has helped clients with various difficult legal challenges for over 40 years, which is why we know we have the experience needed to do the same for you. For experienced legal counsel regarding family law, litigation, business law, real estate, and criminal law, you know where to turn–contact Aronsohn, Weiner, Salerno & Kaufman today to schedule a consultation.